Yes, I do

News is all over the Dutch newspaper that as of today, wedding officiants can loose their jobs in case they refuse to perform same-sex wedding ceremonies. This controversial subject has been a matter of debate in the Netherlands for some time, so this is the outcome of a pretty harsh dispute.

I have to say, being gay and all, I'm not sure whether or not I think this is such a good idea. Basically, there are two sides to the story: firstly, I think it is discrimatory for an officiant to refuse performing a same-sex wedding ceremony. Unless you are a priest or some similar prfession, I believe religion should be kept out of the workplace and be observed privately, therefor not leaving any space for officiants who force their religious believes on others this way.

On the other hand, as long as every municipality has at least one officiant who is willing to perform the weddings, there will be no gay guy or lesbian in the Netherlands at risk of not being able to marry. I'm wondering whether or not the fact that now gays are forcing their lifestyle upon officiants, will serve as bad PR for us.

Let me get one thing straight: personally (while not having any intention on marriage) I think officiants should perform their jobs, no questions asked. In the netherlands, it's legal for gay couples to get married, therefor making it part of the officiant's jobs. the thing is, there's always a delicate line between what should be fair, and what's best in public interest. Any thoughts?